Last year on Christmas Eve, Peter and I spend a nice evening together, and for some reason, we happened to walk past Hamburger Marys around 9pm or so. Peter's best friend TLC was there at the bar with his best friend Patrick. I had met him before, and for some reason, the next couple of hours turned into a very fun Christmas Eve. The four of us talked about this evening for months to come, especially Patrick, because it was a lot of fun, 4 men in a bar in West Hollywood on Christmas Eve. Patrick and I got a dog around the same time, about 8 months ago, and a couple of times a week, I would see him walk his dog on Fountain driving on my way to work, and I always yelled and waived at him. My dog and his got along great, so great that his dog wanted to make babies with my dog:)...
Patrick really was a good sport, when his friends got him that awful stripper for his birthday! Gave us a lot of laughter. He always wanted me to pose for him, and wanted him to take my head shots, only I wasn't ready to in exchange for the head shots, create some art without some piece of clothing I normally keep on in front of the camera:)...
If there's ever going to be a real male "Sex and the City", it should be based on the relationship between TLC, Patrick, M, and J. The four of them ARE the West Hollywood version of "Sex and the City". They have such a loving friendship, and would be together everywhere.
Yesterday afternoon, Friday October the 14th, I was driving home, and was stuck on Fountain for a while, because Crescent Heights was blocked of by police cars. I was on the phone with Peter, when I crossed Crescent Heights, and told him there must have been a accident that happened...
Patrick had lunch with a friend, and he was laughing while he crossed the street for the last time in his short life. A random, bizarre accident took his life. He didn't see it coming, no one saw it coming, and that's the shock we're in now. You know you need to enjoy every minute of your life, because it could be over in a second, but do we really do? I'm going to try harder to do so, and let the people I love know I love them as much as I can, and at least once I day, I'm fully going to feel I'm alive, and make a conscious effort to be totally aware and appreciative about it.
TLC, M, J, M & C, and everyone else who knew Patrick, celebrate his life in the days to come to fill the void his departure has left in your lives. My thoughts are with you.
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